When it came to getting my radiotherapy, I was very much in the been there, done that, got the t-shirt, camp. If there is such a camp when it comes to radiotherapy. I bet there are radiotherapy clubs, but this is just me thinking out loud. I do not want to join a radiotherapy club. Prior to my sessions last week, I had had radiotherapy twice before. Whilst my previous experiences were not without their side effects, if you had spoken to me the week before last, you would have heard me say with great confidence “of all the cancer treatments I have had, radiotherapy is by far the easiest one.” One of my dear friends offered to put her child into nursery to accompany me on my first session, another dear friend offered to take a day off work; both offers were immediately rejected as wholly unnecessary and seen as (a much appreciated) overreaction.
I thought radiotherapy was easy. At least the way in which I have experienced radiotherapy was easy; in the form of a short five day course or as a one off session. I am not naive or conceited enough to think that the people who require weeks of back to back, daily radiotherapy would classify their experience as ‘easy’. I described myself as a seasoned pro, not to a Medically Trained Person, but in my head and probably on this blog. To the Medically Trained People, I somewhat arrogantly sped through the list of side effects and I had very few questions prior to my consent. I just wanted to get on with.
In terms of usage of time (if you exclude the travel), I suppose radiotherapy is easy, and it is more for this reason that I declined the kind offers made by my friends to accompany me to the hospital. I attended UCLH for five days and only one of my visits lasted for more than an hour. On average, I would estimate my trips lasting no more than 30 minutes. The zaps themselves are even shorter, taking a matter of minutes, or even seconds, it’s hard to tell. It’s not like Goldfinger, you cannot see a green laser coming for you. After my first session on Friday 7th, I asked whether that was it when the technicians reappeared, because I was completely unaware of the procedure taking place. I thought that the machine buzzing and moving around me, was preliminary work before the real deal could take place. That expectation is coming from somebody with prior radiotherapy experience; my memory truly is awful. The majority of time my time in the radioactive bunker was spent taking my clothes off and putting them back on again.
I do not recall experiencing any side effects after my first encounter with radiotherapy. That was just one zap on my right hip and the only thing left to remind me that I had it, after the pain went away were the three tattoos left behind. My second experience of radiotherapy was not as straightforward as the first, but it did not compare to a week’s dose of steroids. Approximately two weeks after the five sessions on my L1-L5, I endured two days of food poisoning like symptoms due to the zaps going straight through my stomach. This side effect, whilst absolutely horrible at the time, was predicted and after a day or two recovering, was quickly forgotten.
Less easy to forget, but without the severe sweating, was the scar that treatment has left on my back. Initially, I say initially but approximately six weeks after the treatment, the skin on my back appeared to have been burnt. Burning or sores is a well documented side effect of radiotherapy, so I was unalarmed but itchy, I treated it with aqueous cream as instructed and thought nothing more of it. Approximately 15 months later, I developed Graft vs Host Disease as a result of my transplant and I was reminded of my radiotherapy once more.
I could go on and on about my back, but all you need to know is that as a result of the GVHD, I still have significant scarring on my back. The scarring is in fact so unslightly that it was commented on several times during my most recent week of radiotherapy. One Medically Trained Person with dulcet tones reminded me to moisturise, to which I politely told her that moisturising would not cure this particular ill. I actually wanted to laugh in her face at the stupidity of her comment, given how many doctors I have discussed this ailment with and how all of them have been left scratching their heads. I did not laugh in her face though, because her comment was only stupid to me (and maybe Mamma Jones) who has lived through the saga, or what feels like a strange X-Files-like marking that is my back lower.
Despite my back and the hideousness of it, going in to my most recent treatment, I still thought it was going to be easy and the side effects minimal. Perhaps it is because I did not have the time to think about it. In fact, when it came to asking questions, I asked only two. The first question, given the fact I just wrote two paragraphs about it and shared a rather nasty picture of it, was about scarring. Of the three areas being treated, the one requiring five sessions was on my upper spine and call me vain, because I can be, but I do not want to have a similar scar that would be visible. One scar like the one I have is enough. It’s a story and an occasional show piece. Two scars, with one of them on a visible area of my neck is just unnessary. Only time will tell if history repeats itself. Unfortunately, I cannot apply the cream provided by myself, so I am reliant on the kindness of others to rub cream into my naked body.
My second question was about diarrhoea and whether I would get it again. Nobody wants to get diarrhoea, especially the sort where your stomach cramps constantly and sweat falls from your forehead to the floor. Flashback warning! I just recalled having to remove all my clothes whilst on the toilet the last time I had radiotherapy induced toilet issues. I cried too. Horrid. So yes, I don’t want that. Unfortunately for me, I had one off zaps to my T10-L1 and my left ileum; both of which could have gone through my stomach. So far, I had three days of cramping that was easily treated by a few doses of Buscopan (never underestimate the power of Buscopan, I’m an advocate and I believe it should form part of any personal drug stash).
I am yet to mention fatigue. I knew that the treatment was going to make me tired, especially as the doses accumulated. It made me tired last time and I expected no less this time around. I suffer from fatigue daily, so I thought that it was barely worth a mention. Fatigue impacts so much of my life already, it’s as common to me as water. Nevertheless, I prepared for more fatigue than usual. I purchased ready meals and purchased food that Housemate could cook for me. I bought some plants for my bedroom and replaced my broken aromatherapy defuser, to ensure that my room was a serene and calm environment. So convinced was I that I was going to manage it with relative ease…
You’ve guessed it. I’m eating my words. I’m chewing down on them, masticating slowly before I humiliatingly swallow them and choke.
I do not know if it was because I had more radiotherapy than I had had previously; or because I am physically weaker than I was when I had the previous my treatments, but I found last week incredibly difficult. I struggled. Put it another way, it was anything but easy.
Pain. I was in a lot of pain. Hell, that was the reason I was having the radiotherapy in the first place. Unfortunately, the start of the radiotherapy coincided with a deterioration of my pain. A vast deterioration. I had taken to wearing my sling all the time (bar bedtime) to take the pressure off my back, which did alleviate some of my symptoms but there was a time limit to it. Don’t get me wrong, I felt pain whilst wearing the sling too, I was just in less pain. If I was not wearing a sling, I could not stand up straight. The pins and needles in my arm would be constant and my elbow felt like something was taking a hammer to it. I know I am doing a terribly job at describing my pain. It was in my back, my left arm, my legs, I felt it everywhere. It was all consuming.
As the week of the 10th April started, I had forgotten one crucial thing, and that was that radiotherapy can cause more pain before it relieves it. By the Tuesday, after I had had two sessions on my upper back and the two one off sessions, I remembered. The radiotherapy seemed to enhance every pain I had. The pain in my ileum became instantly worse. It felt heavy and the pain pounded like a heartbeat. My back, well, my back felt like everything was wrong. I couldn’t lift my head or turn it. I had the occasional spasm. I even struggled to get in through my back door because I couldn’t lift my leg high enough. Essentially, I moved like the pre oiled, rusty Tin Man. Sleeping on my side was impossible. Sleeping full stop was difficult.
My words do not do what I felt last week any justice at all. Know that I frequently yelped in my pain, occasionally I produced uncontrollable grunts. The pain, as does my pain today, got progressively worse as the day went on. Doing something as simple as getting ready for bed had to be broken down, because the act of taking off my clothes, putting my pyjamas on, pulling down my bed sheets and setting up my five pillow sleeping tower seemed impossible feat.
Despite fighting to be independent and at times, doggedly so, I relied on Housemate heavily. As I could not bend down, he had to get my food out of the oven, fill up my water bottle, add ice to my drinks, put my post radiotherapy cream on my neck and do up my bra. On the Thursday, Mamma Jones had to drive to London after a full day’ work, and drove me back to her house because I could not lift my suitcase nor get myself to the train station. And because I felt so rundown that I needed the Mum Love and I also though that Housemate needed a break.
The above is not solely the fault of the radiotherapy but it definitely played a part. I do not think that this was a ‘woe is me situation’. I really hope I do not come across that way. I was genuinely scared by how limited my movement became; that should be enough to convey how difficult things became.
In addition to my overly documented pain, there was the fatigue. The fatigue was easier to manage. If there is one thing I am used to managing, it is my fatigue. That said, I did manage to fall asleep in the waiting room of the Radiotherapy Departmemt. I walked in, sat down and within 10 minutes I was fast asleep. I know it was 10 minutes because I arrived at 14.30 and the Technican called my name at 14.40.
I completely underestimated the toll the treatment would take on my body. It’s radiation. I should have put two and two together. In my head, this was just the equivalent to taking a paracetamol. On the Monday of treatment week, in addition to the daily zap on my C5-T5, I had the one off zaps on my ileum and my T10-L1. Oh my gosh, such was the power, I felt instantly felt sick. It was a miracle I did not vomit in the taxi on the way home. By the time I arrived at my flat, all I could manage was to roll onto my bed after finding an Ondansetron (to manage my sickness) in my drugs sack and there I stayed for 90 minutes in the foetal position. I could not move. Everything felt weak and stiff. I believe my attempts to talk actually manifested in a mumble. When I eventually came round, I discovered that I had dribbled on my pillow and chin. There are reasons why I am single. That evening caught me completely off guard. Once again, I found myself panicking, worrying about the cause of the illness, despite realistically knowing that the cause was the radiotherapy.
Finally, in addition to feeling tired, sick and excruciating pain, the radiotherapy made me sweat. Instantly, after each session, I would have a hot flush. By now, I am used to hot flushes but the post radiotherapy ones were severe. One day, on the first day, I sat in the hospital’s main reception for longer than necessary because I was trying to work out how I was going to wipe my sweat off the plastic seat without anybody noticing. You’d think I would have well rehearsed this move by now, but apparently not. I think the radiotherapy had sent me a little doolally. Or perhaps it is my medication. My reactions and my ability to think feels much slower, less reactive.
A week on from my radiotherapy ended and all I can do is wait. I have no idea if I am going to get an upset stomach in a week’s time, or if I am going to get burn marks on my neck or hip. Not only am I waiting for the bad things to occur, I’m also hoping for the treatment to work. At the moment, I can feel my pain improving slowly. Slowly over the last five days, I have gradually felt the sensation in four out of five fingers on my left hand return! That deserves the exclamation mark. Truthfully, I do not know if the improvement in my pain level is due to the radiotherapy or last week’s increased medication. I just spoke to a Medically Trained Person and she suspects it is the medication. So, wait some more, I shall.
So much waiting.
Perhaps me saying that radiotherapy was easy, was wishful thinking. If you say it, it will come true. I know that is complete bollocks, but some sort of positive thinking is a good thing. Right now, as I end yet another epic blog and take in that I had a week of radiotherapy and treated it like it was just a regular day, I realise that I am exhausted. Absolutely exhausted.
That much at least, I know.